Ru-Jun has been wanting to do showers more often and more independently these days. Tonight she took one (after taking one last night; usually we wait at least two nights for the next one) with the only help from me being starting the water and getting the temp right. She did everything else during and afterward. If she can get into a daily or almost-daily habit with this (have to get to reasonable water use, which will take a while) well before puberty, that will be a very positive development.
progress on showering July 20, 2014