about the contrast between Ru-Jun and me as we get through the day. I am about the logistics and getting things done. Ru-Jun is only about having fun and satisfying her need for pleasure at every moment. These two views are 180˚ apart from each other. I like to have fun to but there is no appreciation from my counterpart that this family needs to get through the things we need to do each day, and that is all upon me (except for stuff with Shian-Ren when our aide is here, which is less than half the 24h day). This divide is a nearly constant stressor when Ru-Jun is awake.
Here’s the thing July 4, 2014