Ru-Jun’s appetite for cuddling and general physicality is about 100 times my capacity or desire to provide. I’m not a physical display of affection person. I need my personal space. I provide what I see as an obligatory amount of hugs. After that I am really unwilling and I think Ru-Jun goes overboard in pushing for more. It is the source of not a small amount of conflict between us lately.
Cuddling November 4, 2013