a lot, maybe even a majority, of men with established career trajectories would not deal with the burdens I deal with. They would just go or somehow abdicate from the situation. No chance of me doing that because this is my responsibility and if I can do only one thing, this is what I have to do. But none of that reduces the cost of having to do this. Time is everything and this is an immense chunk of time.
I’m pretty sure October 25, 2013