I’m not familiar with much of it. But the only theory that seems even remotely plausible to me is that there can’t be any theory for outcomes of 100% effort parenting. It’s completely phenomenological. Anything else would seem to constitute an extraordinary claim. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. I defy anyone to prove anything in such a chaotic and idiosyncratic enterprise.
(Ru-Jun is still coughing a bit and was back to day care today. But now I have come down with her cold.)